Has anyone stayed with a cheating husband for money? - beautiful agony the men
We have been separated for two years and I'm not happy, but I have two wonderful children. It is an egotist, but he has a good heart. I'm not in love "and after all the fraud. He owns a shop and pay my bills, I own a business, also to pay my bills, while our tourist season begins. If the person feels everyone else despair? I worked hard all my life, but fear losing everything if I go on forever. I thought of finding a second job, but actually can not afford the hands of children for longer than me. He works 7 days a week now. This is not really a question on the board, but only has someone else by the fear of the stay for the money?
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Beautiful Agony The Men Has Anyone Stayed With A Cheating Husband For Money?
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If you want to stay with him for the money than you, but your kids pick up things, even if you think you do not know, I do not want anyone to get their children how to use.
ReplyDeleteDivorce is ugly, but it must continue. The money will come, and I am sure that if you get divorced, while they can still come, you are enough of his success. I do not think it does not harm their children to see her sad. As a self-centered man works, have a good heart? Bon courage itself? Confused. Make change. In this way, you and your children can begin to heal. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteIt is a difficult issue but should not remain in a relationship if you are not happy, and --
ReplyDeleteYou should not remain only for financial reasons to help the children, but it should.
I've heard of such marriages to be done. I hope that happens. I feel your pain, because I see my sister go through a bad marriage. Later, I took a colleague and a wonderful man and translate their needs are there to take care of me.
ReplyDeleteSo I feel bad when I hear that some people do not treat their women with respect and love and attention. Not sure if you read the Bible, but men are commanded to love their wives. You need to love as Christ loves the church.
Be yourself and I begin to pray for him. I know that's not change - where the pain is deep and wide. If we can start with you ... probably a man can not live without them. You might think I'm crazy, if you like, I was not in force;But I have seen miracles happen - and can not get one.
The first thing to do is to forgive yourself, and only for your car to him. This will make you free Forgiveness does not mean that do aggree with what you ... only means that you can not make up your own and free from pain, about their behavior. You can not change, not his hate may change, but believe me his forgivness and love can only.
So, let's start with you, I'll pray for you - if you do not believe a. I will pray that God opens momtion a wonderful miracle in your life and home.
It could also start - every day by reading a verse from the Bible, reading the book of John in the Bible. Check out his awards for each dayWeek of every month, and it is good and wise advice for life is free. The book is full of wisdom.
Stay with a man not a bad thing, and learn to be happy - not the person who makes you happy - you are by letting go and letting God happy. God is much better anyway better in the care of the dead men.
Love in Christ,
You have a friend in me - I pray for you every day.
Psalm 120
Pss.120
[1] In my distress I cried unto the Lord, and he heard me.
[2] save my soul, O Lord, false lips, and the false tongues.
Psalm 1
[1] Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
[2] However, pondering the joy of the law of the Lord and in his law day and night.
[3] And it is like a tree, streams of water, which gives its fruit in season and whose leaf does not fall planted, and everything you do will prosper.
[4] The wicked do not, but as chaff which the wind is driving the distance.
[5] Therefore the wicked will not stand trial, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.
[6] For the Lord knows the way of the righteous perish, but the way of the wicked will.
Money is no reason to marry or stay married. Marriage is love and partnership. If you are no longer in love and life and not live as a partner after the marriage is already over.
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and wait longer for his followers. He will pay the child, and you must learn to earn their livelihood.
While you will get money to live with him, why not live with him? If you go the other woman's money to be won, and the rest of your money you earned in the future. Wait, and you can pay the bills, you deserve it and will not be easy to exist on its own when you finish with nothing after a divorce. It does not work, 7 days a week, because you spend time and money to this woman. You must make your thoughts and decide whether you can tolerate this nonsense, and if I were you, and you have children involved, I do and let him do what he wants and take your money with an evil smile. Be careful, do not let another woman walk all you want and need.
ReplyDeleteI think the question is not that the answer to his dear friend, I think it is really your great effort to give, more able to hold at each step either a sentence in the futures. Children are the key u think carefully, and it is not easy to be selfish when thinking uy.
ReplyDeleteIt is not worth the money with anyone, whether man or woman to remain, the cheat codes for
ReplyDeleteYou may have broken. But why does this happen?
ReplyDeleteSome men just out of the trap of living. Others are old and tired. Others were taken in the face after a long time.
You can also "in love" with him, but you can try two again. There are ups and downs, with or without fraud. Your children are the glue that you have two together.
No, but my ex-fraud stayed with me for money. I had to get going as fast as I could, and six years later, he lives in a homeless shelter and live in my house, 4 bedrooms, always want to come back. I think not.
ReplyDeleteDivorced him and receive financial support and child support. This will help to get the funding. I believe that many women stay with men who do not want to fund, too. Are happy to be single and live your life for you and your children. You will get through it !!!!! Best wishes
ReplyDeleteThey do not so live, and a change that can work 2 jobs to take care of you and your children. Alimoney and children. Not to mention, on the basis of adultery have everything in the bag. Get a lawyer and start doing what you want to do. You can pay for two attorneys. If there is nothing and the children see their misfortune is it truly healthy? They do not stay for the money. You can get money and be happy. Who disturbed by noise, while for me to like you more than you deserve this cheater.Its not worth it, my mother had more than once, and he realized that he do more harm then good. Why live in fear, you only live once.
ReplyDeleteI stayed with my x long as financial need, and finally had the courage to leave more than 2 years. It was tough, but I regret it. Good luck! Flack you can give on this, but if you have children, you must be able to take care of them.
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